Gift culture is a concept that I was introduced through various tools and people. I was left with Awe, to believe that we can look at the world beyond money. People can live with the energy of generousity, love and trust was new for me. Over the years I began experiencing and soon realized that it is not a concept to be understood but to be experienced.
For the benefit of someone who doesn't know what is gift economy or gift culture I will try and explain in my words. To me its about looking at life beyond money, more important than money is the relationship of humans. The earth and its people have enough for our needs and we dont need to live in scarcity, we can live in abundance. In a space where the spirit of trust, generosity and love come rather than selfishness and competition. There are many forms of of practicing gift economy and I am going to share about some that have touched me over the years based on my experience.
Dariya Dil Dukan : Stuff is everywhere, our houses are filled with it but not everything we own we need at all times. Creating spaces for people to give away the things they dont need but can be used by another is what I feel is Dariya dil dukan. Its not about the rich giving to the poor but about sharing among communities.
The shop with the heart as big as the ocean is the literal translation of dariya dil dukan. When I open my heart to giving I have experienced that I receive so much and not always has to be in tangible terms. I have experienced dariya dil dukan go beyond clothes or books, people have offered their homes to come stay, their expertise to learn from and their listening ear. Its really about offering and receiving beyond monetary transaction.
Having hosted many dariya dil dukan myself I am always been left with a so much love. I have been part of spaces where an individual offered a Kindle for anyone to take and also another individual offer a simple small stapler but held with love and care.
Sliding Scale : When I conduct workshops or sessions, I deeply want the workshop to be accessible to all and not let the fees of a workshop come as a barrier of learning. However I also understand that I want to earn some money to get by in this world. Keeping a sliding scale on the fees of a certain service like one example could be Rs.500 to Rs.1500 gives space to the giver to choose yet make sure I am able to cover the bare minimums.
There is also a concept of pay as you wish, where you ask the person to give as they would like. I haven't yet experimented with this concept. There are many other forms of gift economy, some our apart of our traditional Indian system.
Of course gift economy is not perfect and I feel its really about trusting the universe and people. To me its not a system, its about how I want to look at money, trust and life. Its how I understand myself and how I want to take care of my needs and wants.
The latest beautiful experience I went through is when I offered my hosting skills to some people with the intention to learn myself. I was giving without the thought or expectation of getting anything back expect learnings. People were touched by my hosting and work. They offered from their own side, some took me out for a meal, some offered to give me a ride around, some offered a gift and most astonishing for me was to be offered a token of appreciation in form of money.
There are such small moments that fill me with so much love and gratitude. I more and more believe that when I give openly , I am receiving double. I am still discovering my relationship with money and move between scarcity and abundance as my journey progresses. I just have to open my heart to receive love that the universe has to offer.
For the benefit of someone who doesn't know what is gift economy or gift culture I will try and explain in my words. To me its about looking at life beyond money, more important than money is the relationship of humans. The earth and its people have enough for our needs and we dont need to live in scarcity, we can live in abundance. In a space where the spirit of trust, generosity and love come rather than selfishness and competition. There are many forms of of practicing gift economy and I am going to share about some that have touched me over the years based on my experience.
Dariya Dil Dukan : Stuff is everywhere, our houses are filled with it but not everything we own we need at all times. Creating spaces for people to give away the things they dont need but can be used by another is what I feel is Dariya dil dukan. Its not about the rich giving to the poor but about sharing among communities.
The shop with the heart as big as the ocean is the literal translation of dariya dil dukan. When I open my heart to giving I have experienced that I receive so much and not always has to be in tangible terms. I have experienced dariya dil dukan go beyond clothes or books, people have offered their homes to come stay, their expertise to learn from and their listening ear. Its really about offering and receiving beyond monetary transaction.
Having hosted many dariya dil dukan myself I am always been left with a so much love. I have been part of spaces where an individual offered a Kindle for anyone to take and also another individual offer a simple small stapler but held with love and care.
Sliding Scale : When I conduct workshops or sessions, I deeply want the workshop to be accessible to all and not let the fees of a workshop come as a barrier of learning. However I also understand that I want to earn some money to get by in this world. Keeping a sliding scale on the fees of a certain service like one example could be Rs.500 to Rs.1500 gives space to the giver to choose yet make sure I am able to cover the bare minimums.
There is also a concept of pay as you wish, where you ask the person to give as they would like. I haven't yet experimented with this concept. There are many other forms of gift economy, some our apart of our traditional Indian system.
Of course gift economy is not perfect and I feel its really about trusting the universe and people. To me its not a system, its about how I want to look at money, trust and life. Its how I understand myself and how I want to take care of my needs and wants.
The latest beautiful experience I went through is when I offered my hosting skills to some people with the intention to learn myself. I was giving without the thought or expectation of getting anything back expect learnings. People were touched by my hosting and work. They offered from their own side, some took me out for a meal, some offered to give me a ride around, some offered a gift and most astonishing for me was to be offered a token of appreciation in form of money.
There are such small moments that fill me with so much love and gratitude. I more and more believe that when I give openly , I am receiving double. I am still discovering my relationship with money and move between scarcity and abundance as my journey progresses. I just have to open my heart to receive love that the universe has to offer.
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